The Best Sex Toys for Every Body

Suction toys are life-changing if you've never used one before, and after testing dozens of them, I can say with certainty that the Sona 2 Cruise is the absolute best high-end suction toy on the market. It's one I kept reaching for even outside of testing hours. The body fits in my hand perfectly, the buttons are in places that make sense, and it has a variety of intensities well-suited to just about any preference.

The Cruise part of the name refers to Lelo's Cruise Control technology, which makes the toy increase intensity when you press it hard against your body. It's a smart sex toy, and it's my number one recommendation for anyone looking to try something new and something ultra-quiet. Unlike many suction toys that can be noisy, the Sona 2, like all of Lelo’s products, is practically silent.

Body is made from food-grade silicone. Good for all bodies, targeted suction stimulation for the clitoris, frenulum, or nipples.

While you can use it by itself, I highly recommend you try the MysteryVibe Crescendo 2 (8/10, WIRED Recommends) vibrator with its companion app (Android, iOS). It allows you to create a myriad of vibrational settings to play with, and the device can store up to 12 at a time. There are preset “vibes” as well as 16 intensity settings, where you can tweak each of the six motors in the device to a specific frequency. Use for exploratory solo sessions, or with a partner—it’s a lot of fun in both settings. —Julia Forbes

Made from body-safe silicone. Great for all erogenous zones.

I know what you might be thinking, “But it’s so smol!” You know what else is small? Hummingbirds, grapes, and puppies. So don’t let the smallness of anything, especially this Magic Wand Micro, cause alarm or assumption. Like all wands, the broad head of the Magic Wand Micro delivers rumbles galore that don’t just stimulate the clitoris but the entire vulva—and for a whopping three hours, when fully charged. It’s also USB rechargeable, so take that, outlet-needy wand vibrators!

Unlike some other wands—like this one’s older siblings—there’s no need to be near an outlet for your entire body to feel the surge of pleasure everywhere. Nor will you feel like you have an extra limb in bed with you, thanks to its diminutive size that can easily be wielded about without fear of knocking yourself or a partner in the head. Its size also makes it travel-ready, meaning lunchtime wanks during the workday can become a daily practice. Fun fact: Feminist pornographer Erika Lust has made masturbation breaks a permanent policy in her company, so it’s not exactly unheard of or even vulgar to rub one out when you need a quick de-stress session. I have had dozens of wand vibrators in my life, but this one, as Renee Zellweger would say, “had me at hello.”

Head is made from food-grade silicone tested to FDA standards. Great for all genitals.

The Dame Pom (8/10, WIRED Recommends) is a pocket-sized, waterproof vibrator with five vibration patterns, five intensity settings, and a soft, squishy body meant to contour to various erogenous zones. The vibrations resonate throughout the toy. But they’re concentrated at the tip where there’s a slight ridge in the design that’s meant to land perfectly on the clitoris or other spots that rely on precision, so you get targeted, but also broader stimulation, all in one toy. Experimenting with the intensities, vibration modes, and even how you touch it to your (or someone else’s) body can be a lot of fun.

The Pom’s intuitive, ergonomic shape makes it easy to use in the heat of the moment. The button layout is simple. You can easily feel which button is which without looking (a huge plus), so you can rapidly switch between modes and intensities.

Made from platinum-cured medical-grade silicone. Great for all genitals.

In a society where things tend to get bigger, Crave decided to take the iconic Vesper and scale it down, creating the Vesper Mini (9/10, WIRED Recommends). Like its original model and its second incarnation, the Vesper 2, the Mini is just as discreet and stylish, while packing a whole lot of punch. The Mini, which is equal parts vibrator and necklace, has three speed intensities and one pattern option to choose from, is 100 percent waterproof, and because it’s made of polished 316L surgical stainless steel with a nickel-free plating, it’s body-safe. It’s a must-have if you prefer your sexual pleasure to be highly sophisticated, elegant, and wearable.

USB-C rechargeable, stainless steel. Great for all external erogenous zones.

Some rabbit vibrators overdo it when it comes to features, but the We-Vibe Nova 2 doesn’t. It’s a great, no-frills rabbit vibe with a flexible external arm that keeps constant contact with the clitoris, while the inside arm is curved perfectly for maximum G-spot stimulation. It also has a snug fit, so you can lie back and use the We-Connect app to control the vibrations and patterns, making it essentially hands-free in that position. The app can also be used for long-distance fun, allowing your partner to control the Nova 2 from anywhere in the world.

Made from body-safe silicone. Great for those with a vulva.

If you’ve been flirting with anal play, then you need to look into b-Vibe. Founded by Alicia Sinclair, the mastermind behind Le Wand, b-Vibe is the place to go for all your backdoor fun, especially if you’re a newbie. For me, the Rimming Plug Petite was a game changer when I started dipping my toe into anal waters. It’s not just a small vibrating butt plug, but has beads in the base that stimulate the anus in a subtle, yet really enjoyable way, which helps to relax the anal canal. It also has a remote control that can be used from up to 30 feet away, so you can explore hands-free fun on your own or with a partner. You want to make lube a part of the equation to minimize the possibility of microtears and/or pain. (Read our Best Lubes guide.)

USB-A rechargeable, made from medical-grade silicone. Excellent for anyone looking to experiment with anal stimulation.

Lelo’s Enigma is a weird-looking toy. It not only looks like some device a Stormtrooper would keep under their pillow to, well, who even knows, but looks aside, I can say this: I had one of the hardest and quickest orgasms of my life with this toy. Even after I climaxed, I sat there for 20 minutes wondering what had just happened. To this day, I don’t know if it was a blended orgasm, a triple orgasm, or some religious experience that only a heathen can have in the perfect setting.

Like the Rabbit vibrator before it, the Enigma is designed to stimulate both the clitoris and the G-spot. But instead of relying solely on vibration, the Enigma’s clitoral stimulation arm contains a powerful air pulse mechanism for providing suction that imitates the sensation of receiving oral sex. The bigger, rounder end of the toy is where the vibration motor lives. Its body is flexible enough that you can use just one end or the other at a time, but if you use them together, it’s an intense experience, to say the least. Even going slow, the Enigma fires you off into space at warp speed—in a good way. That said, the vibration end is a bit thick at its widest point, so if you’re not comfortable with large-diameter toys, take it slow and easy. Use lots of lube.

Made from food-grade silicone, tested to FDA standards. Best for G-spot and clitoral stimulation.

What I love most about this G-spot vibrator by Hot Octopuss is that it can be used by anyone who loves internal stimulation. The silicone shaft and head of the Kurve are soft and flexible. When fully charged, it offers two hours of runtime so you can explore every speed combination (there are 25), as well as the five patterns. It also divides the vibrations into treble (high-frequency) and bass, so you can choose stimulation that’s focused on the G-spot (treble) or a deep rumbling sensation, should you want to use it in or on other parts of the body. Admittedly, a lot is going on here, so it’s the perfect vibrator to set aside an entire afternoon so you can dig deep and explore.

USB-A rechargeable, made from premium ABS silicone. Great for all bodies, internal and external.

For those who loved the Dame Fin, good news: Fin 2.0 has arrived. Slicker in appearance and with two more intensities to choose from (making it five now, instead of three), the Fin 2.0 may as well teach a master class. With your favorite water-based lube, the Fin can seamlessly move across the body, stimulating everything from the earlobes to the nipples to that spot on the inner thigh that makes so many people squirm in ecstasy. When you’re ready to take things up a notch, it can bring your sexual pleasure journey to fruition—in other words, orgasm.

USB-C rechargeable, made with medical-grade silicone. Great for all external erogenous zones.

The Satisfyer Pro 2 Gen 3 (9/10, WIRED Recommends) lives up to its name. It's versatile, powerful, and surprisingly gentle. The whole body of the Gen 3 is covered in soft silicone, so it's easier to grip than the previous versions made of ABS plastic. The buttons are all conveniently located along the back of the toy, right about where your fingertips naturally fall.

It's a refined version of a tried and true design, and it feels like it. There's a level of care and craftsmanship in the build of this toy I appreciate. It’s also a suction vibrator in that it has two attachments, with each one offering two completely different sensations: the new Liquid Air Technology or the more traditional vibration feeling, which is a fun change of pace. The Gen 3 also features built-in vibration functionality. The third button on the toy cycles through vibration patterns that can heighten things when you're in the thick of it. Read our Best Clitoral Suction Toys guide for more picks.

Mouth is made from silicone, body is made from plastic. Great for all genitals.

Dame's take on the classic magic wand introduces a new angle on an old favorite—literally. Most wands are straight, and nothing on the human body is straight, so using them to reach your most sensitive areas can be pretty awkward. The Com (8/10, WIRED Recommends) offers an elegant solution. The wand handle is angled ergonomically, so the toy does all the reaching for you. The battery life could use some work, though; you’ll get about an hour out of a single charge, but that’s also why no one should ever own just one wand vibrator. Not only should your vibrators always be fully charged, but it’s important to have something else on standby and ready to finish the job that another toy might have been unable to do.

Made from platinum-cured medical-grade silicone. Great for diffuse stimulation to the vulva, phallus, or sore muscles.

Le Wand's Die Cast Wand Vibrator (8/10, WIRED Recommends) is as big as it is powerful. Almost as heavy as a Maglite flashlight, this vibrator is a great pick for anyone who wants the most powerful vibrations you can get from a cordless vibrator. Even on its lowest intensity setting, it's powerful, but that makes it an excellent choice for indirect stimulation. It's strong enough to feel fully through clothes, and the ultra-strong vibrations travel far and wide through your body and deep under your skin.

The size is also a plus. The Le Wand feels hefty and durable—the die-cast aluminum exterior feels nice and cool—and because of its length, it's easy to use in different positions. This is a toy that encourages creativity, but if you have an extra sensitive clitoris—or are extra sensitive anywhere—please start at the very lowest vibration setting with this wand. Its power can initially border on shocking (read: life-changing) in a good way.

Aluminum exterior, body-safe silicone head. Great for all genitals and erogenous zones.

When it comes to sex toys that feel just like receiving oral sex, the Lelo Ora 3 (8/10, WIRED Recommends) has mastered the art. While I only used it on my clitoris, based on the design, the pleasure node on this toy can easily be used on the anus for those who love a rimming sensation. Unlike suction toys, the Ora 3 feels like the real deal, as the pleasure node oscillates along the clitoris in a way that’s strikingly similar to the human tongue. The Ora 3 is also quieter than most suction toys and has more intensity and pattern options to explore. Its battery life is on the shorter side, but it makes up for that in being waterproof and comfortable to hold, and the overall sensation it delivers.

Made of body-safe silicone. Great for all external erogenous zones.

The Coconu Wave (8/10, WIRED Recommends) is one of my favorite vibrators. It's asymmetrical, with a flat cut-out on one side, giving you a variety of rounded and pointed corners to use for stimulation. It's shaped like a raindrop, with a curved tip that does a great job of concentrating the vibrations it produces.

The body is clad in platinum-cured silicone, and it's soft and squishy to the touch. The silicone used on the Wave takes lube extremely well; even a couple of drops of water-based lube make the exterior of the Wave take on a texture sort of like the inside of your cheek. Slick but not squeaky or sticky.

Made from platinum-cured silicone. Great for all erogenous zones.

The Bender is unique because it’s so flexible and allows you to get creative if you’re alone or with a partner (or two). You can easily shape it to fit your body in so many ways. One minute, it’s the ultimate G-spot stimulator, while the next it’s reaching deep, heading toward the A-spot, or as we call it in the biz, the anterior fornix erogenous zone. Then, with more twists and turns, you’ve got yourself a clitoral vibrator. There’s no end to such high-quality, luxurious magic that comes with Bender! It’s also waterproof, and while the vibrations aren’t as powerful as a wand-style vibrator, they’re buzzy enough to make an impact, especially for those who find many vibrators to be too intense to the touch. It’s also super quiet, even at its highest setting.

Best for vulvas and phalluses, made from unspecified silicone.

There are generally two kinds of at-home sex machines. Ones that have a toy on the end of a robotic thrusting arm and ones that you sit on like a saddle while it vibrates the seat and the attached toy. The Motorbunny Buck (8/10 WIRED Recommends) pulls double duty. It's a Sybian-style machine that can also thrust.

The Buck has a vibrating seat with a toy attachment oriented vertically and provides a back-and-forth motion. You can control both kinds of stimulation from the included controller, and honestly, it provides sensations you can't get from any other toy. It's truly a unique experience. The dual functionality makes it a great pick for anyone curious about at-home sex machines, because no matter what, these things are expensive. With this one, you at least get twice the bang for your buck.

Attachments are made from unspecified silicone. Great for all genitals, internal and external stimulation.

I know that too often people think of bullet vibrators as something that only people with vulvas or, more specifically, a clitoris can use and enjoy. But breaking news: Bullet vibrators can (and should) be used by everyone. Because of this, I’d be remiss not to include one of my favorite bullets of ever: Le Wand Deux. I will never stop singing the praises of this gem. Its 15 vibration modes and six intensity levels have a design that hugs the clitoris and nipples during stimulation. It can also be used on the frenulum, perineum, and around the outside of the anus as you turn up the frisky dial during your playtime.

Made from food-grade silicone, tested to FDA standards. Great for all bodies.

While there are a lot of lubes on the market and everyone has their absolute favorite, if you’re new to lubes, it’s best to keep things simple. That’s why Lelo's Personal Moisturizer is a fantastic option. Water-based, unscented, and not full of unnecessary ingredients that can irritate sensitive skin, this lube stays slick and slippery without becoming sticky the way some water-based lubes can. It's also pH-balanced to match your skin and is free of parabens and glycerine.

Read our Best Lubes guide for other picks, including silicone and natural oil-based lubes.